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I’m in a Bind and Need a Recommendation for Legitimate and Reputable Debt Help. – Mike

“Dear Steve,

I am in a bind. I have about 65,000 in credit card debt and house is worth 200,000. I owe $200,000 on the house and about $250,000 in student loans. I make about $150,000 per year. I have about $10,000 in medical bills alone. I cosigned on the student loans for my daughter.

She has been out of school for 8 months and can not get a job. I am now way overextended. I spoke with 2 bankruptcy attorney’s and both suggest I will pay back 100% over the next 5 years because of income. I dont want to file the chp 13, I could loose my job. Well, they would find a reason to terminate me. I AM NOW GOING 60 DAY LATE ON MY CREDIT CARDS.

IS THERE ANY LEGIT DEBT RELIEF, DEBT SETTLEMENT COMPANIES AROUND SINCE THE NEW FTC LAW WENT INTO AFFECT? WOULD CREDIT COUNSELING HELP? OR IS CHP 13 THE ONLY WAY TO GO? I am living check to check. I am not a drinker or gambler. I have was trying to put 2 kids thru college as a single father. I know the student loans will not be discharged at all

Mike”

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The Answer

Dear Mike,

Yep, that’s an official mess. Well first thing we need to do is prioritize the debt. The student loans come first. I need for you to answer this question for me. Post your answer in the comments section.

Are these government or private student loans? It makes a huge difference.

So in a situation like this we need to maximize income and minimize expenses in a crisis fashion. If your unemployed daughter isn’t living in your house to save money, move her in. Then kick her out to go work temp jobs, minimum wage jobs, anything. She needs to contribute something towards this situation. I know it sounds harsh but this is all hands on deck time.

Next, until we can see if any intervention is available for the student loans, keep those current and stop paying the credit cards. There are penalties for stopping payment, including the fact they might sue you in the future. But at this point the ship is sinking, we can worry about pumping it out later. If you are sued you can get protection from that under bankruptcy so don’t freak out about a potential suit right now.

Both a credit counseling program or a debt settlement program are not appropriate choices for you right now based on what you’ve shared. It sounds like with just meeting minimum expenses, before the credit cards, you are tapped out and have no extra to pay.

Now, I don’t want to freak you out but I need for you to see this clearly. If you work at a job where they would frown on a bankruptcy, then it is also a job that would frown upon delinquent credit cards payments and other negative information reported on your credit report, unless…

The big “unless” is that once we get a game plan going here you then approach HR and confidentially explain to them what is going on. I can’t think of a single case since I first started helping people in 1994 when someone I have advised to do that has been fired because of their financial problems. The key here is to bring them in the loop to see you are doing everything you can. We want them to know this is not a security problem, this is just an unforeseen life mess.

I’m here with you. Let’s go. Tell me about the student loans.

Please update me on your progress by posting updates here in the comments section of your question. I’m very interested in how this works out for you.

Big Hug!

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  • ComplianceSlave

    can contact through http://www.active-debt.com as well & I return to you.

  • ComplianceSlave

    i work for Active Debt Solutions- We have NEVER charged fees for settlement until debts are settled and have been in business for nearly 4 years. We earn a % of what you save. I can give you an estimate, assuming you qualify for either settlement or consolidation. Email me your info & i’ll get right back to you. sean@active-debt.com

  • Penguin

    I really don’t care about hr at this point, if I get sued, I will just file the chp 13. I have pre-paid law, so I don’t have to pay for the attorney for either the bankruptcy or defending law suits. So with that in mind, is debt settlement or counseling going to help me at all?

  • Steve Rhode

    That is unfortunately not good news.

    You’ll have to check with the state servicer about options on those student loans but Sallie Mae offers no options for modifying the loans like government backed loans do.

    As long as the loans are charging interest only you are making no progress. Whatever you do, don’t put them in forbearance. That will only increase the loan balances quickly and create a deeper hole to dig out of without any good options.

    It might be possible to settle the credit card debt if you have $30,000 in cash on hand to settle. Accumulating cash on a monthly basis seems highly unlikely since you are paying interest only on the student loans and can’t afford to pay the cards now. How would you find extra money each month?

    If bankruptcy is not an option, your credit score is 550, you have private student loans you are on the hook for, state loans that won’t work with you, you don’t have cash on hand to settle your credit card debt, then your only logical option is to reduce your living expenses significantly to free up income to service the student loans and make your credit card payments.

    If your credit score is already down to 550 and you are a couple of months behind, it may not be much longer before a creditor sues you, gets a judgment and then goes for a wage garnishment. How do you think HR will react to that?

    If you don’t agree with my assessment and would like a second opinion about your situation, I would suggest you contact Damon Day.

  • Pen

    Steve. The student loans have not really come do. I an paying interest only. The loans are state backed not fed. Also some where private via sallie Mae .. The hr sounds good, but they would not understand. My income is higher then the person I would tell. That would be an issue. Also I am a licensed professional , so If I got termed I could still find employment else where. My daughter does not live with me. She would not cooperate with these problems. Ex wife brainwashing.I am just trying to keep the wolves away for a bit. Yea credit score us now down to 550. If I wanted to do credit settlement. Is that possible? Is there any legit companies.

  • Pen

    Steve. The student loans have not really come do. I an paying interest only. The loans are state backed not fed. Also some where private via sallie Mae .. The hr sounds good, but they would not understand. My income is higher then the person I would tell. That would be an issue. Also I am a licensed professional , so If I got termed I could still find employment else where. My daughter does not live with me. She would not cooperate with these problems. Ex wife brainwashing.I am just trying to keep the wolves away for a bit. Yea credit score us now down to 550. If I wanted to do credit settlement. Is that possible? Is there any legit companies.

    • http://GetOutOfDebt.org Steve Rhode

      That is unfortunately not good news.

      You’ll have to check with the state servicer about options on those student loans but Sallie Mae offers no options for modifying the loans like government backed loans do.

      As long as the loans are charging interest only you are making no progress. Whatever you do, don’t put them in forbearance. That will only increase the loan balances quickly and create a deeper hole to dig out of without any good options.

      It might be possible to settle the credit card debt if you have $30,000 in cash on hand to settle. Accumulating cash on a monthly basis seems highly unlikely since you are paying interest only on the student loans and can’t afford to pay the cards now. How would you find extra money each month?

      If bankruptcy is not an option, your credit score is 550, you have private student loans you are on the hook for, state loans that won’t work with you, you don’t have cash on hand to settle your credit card debt, then your only logical option is to reduce your living expenses significantly to free up income to service the student loans and make your credit card payments.

      If your credit score is already down to 550 and you are a couple of months behind, it may not be much longer before a creditor sues you, gets a judgment and then goes for a wage garnishment. How do you think HR will react to that?

      If you don’t agree with my assessment and would like a second opinion about your situation, I would suggest you contact Damon Day.

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