Child Support Broke Me. Can’t Pay My Bills Now. – Justin

“Dear Steve,

Recent child support took my financial cusion away that I had for years an years. I’m not saying it’s wrong, but I accumulated my debt, when I had the funds to keep my payments up to date and when the support kicked in, I no longer had a cusion and yet, I still had the debt. And now my credit is suffering. I had to pay a few late and my score plummeted to barely over 600. I am a single male in my late 30′s.

Is there anything like a government grant that could help me pay off the debt, while possibly bettering myself in the process? IE. education, business. I am an Illinois resident, FYI.

Justin”


The Answer:

 

Dear Justin,

Let me sum this up for you in lay terms, “you’re screwed.”

There is no grant to bail you out of your debt so you can meet your legal obligation to pay court ordered child support. The government stance is if you can’t pay your bills after you pay your child support, you better go bankrupt.

This is a situation that happens daily.

A good friend of mine is drowning under the burden of child support. To make issues worse, every time he makes more money the court raises his child support and then makes it retroactively effective.

I believe in child support and think that it has many beneficial sides to it, but it is for the kids, and they should come first.

It sucks, I know it, but a trip to a local bankruptcy attorney is probably the best course of action for you. And just to be 100% clear, bankruptcy will not terminate, adjust or eliminate your child support payments. It will clear your other debts so you can make room to pay the child support.

Please update me on your progress by posting updates here in the comments section of your question. I’m very interested in how this works out for you.

Big Hug!

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  • Mousey2185

    so why dont the courts take your living, bills, basically your life into consideration before assisting how much to pay in child support? i pay 50% of my check witch is not much, and now i lost my apartment and car because of child support. is there any laws that help people who pay support? and why do they keep talking about fixing the system if they dont plan on fixing it? people keep dieing and getting locked up over child support. they seem to fix everything but child support laws and issues. they spend millions in hong kong to study the male prostitute and not help people over here. illegal emergents have it better than legal americans.

  • Mousey2185

    so why dont the courts take your living, bills, basically your life into consideration before assisting how much to pay in child support? i pay 50% of my check witch is not much, and now i lost my apartment and car because of child support. is there any laws that help people who pay support? and why do they keep talking about fixing the system if they dont plan on fixing it? people keep dieing and getting locked up over child support. they seem to fix everything but child support laws and issues. they spend millions in hong kong to study the male prostitute and not help people over here. illegal emergents have it better than legal americans.

  • Pvicicondi

    the kids should come first , and yet , the courts do not monitor the spending of the money sent to the custodial parent. there should be an audit or type of review to make sure money is for the kids and not spent for alcohol, drugs and other personal , selfish use. the state of illinois sucks at monitoring custodial parents and is really good at screwing anyone who pays their support faithfully and without regard to their ability to support themselves. DHFS is also a a waste of time when you notify them of an abusive custodial parent who does not tend to their children. the whole system is corupt. i know why people go into hiding when it comes to child support.

  • Pvicicondi

    the kids should come first , and yet , the courts do not monitor the spending of the money sent to the custodial parent. there should be an audit or type of review to make sure money is for the kids and not spent for alcohol, drugs and other personal , selfish use. the state of illinois sucks at monitoring custodial parents and is really good at screwing anyone who pays their support faithfully and without regard to their ability to support themselves. DHFS is also a a waste of time when you notify them of an abusive custodial parent who does not tend to their children. the whole system is corupt. i know why people go into hiding when it comes to child support.