So here I am, minding my own business and what does divine intervention deliver in front of me, a link to The Dave Ramsey page titled the Truth About Bankruptcy.
I really wonder if Mr. Ramsey actually believes some of the rubbish he prints. Sometimes it seems to me he is so vested in his old points of view that he has not updated and revisited them.
Dave Ramsey says, “If you’re facing the prospect of bankruptcy or in the middle of it right now, you know it’s a living nightmare. It can devastate your job, destroy your marriage and steal your peace of mind.
Bankruptcy is not something I recommend any more than I would recommend divorce. Are there times when good people see no way out and file bankruptcy? Yes, but I will still talk you out of bankruptcy if given the opportunity. Few people who have been through bankruptcy would report that it is a painless wiping-clean of the slate, after which you merrily trot off into your future to start fresh.
Don’t let anyone fool you. I have been through bankruptcy and have worked with bankruptcy for decades, and it is not a place you want to visit. Bankruptcy is listed in the top five life-altering negative events that we can go through, along with divorce, severe illness, disability, and loss of a loved one. I would never say that bankruptcy is as bad as losing a loved one, but it is life-altering and leaves deep wounds both to the psyche and the credit report.” Source
I’ve been through bankruptcy myself, just like Dave has and I’ve helped people since 1994, nearly as long as Dave Ramsey has but my experience is exactly the opposite when it comes to bankruptcy. As far as I can see, most of the negative press and stigma about bankruptcy comes from fear mongering about a process that is legally sanctioned and permitted under the law. In fact bankruptcy is initiated by the consumer with the blessing and cooperation of the courts.
Are some people traumatized by bankruptcy, yes. But the largest source of those fears is the very stuff Ramsey and other debt advisors blurt out without considering the consequences. In my experience, once you make sure the individual is a s fully informed as possible about the bankruptcy process, the fear is greatly reduced and the knowledge that the person is now protected under the law from creditors is comforting.
It is very easy to repair credit after bankruptcy. I would argue that if it takes you years to avoid bankruptcy and limp along paying what you can under the Ramsey approach, that your credit remains worse for longer.
I would no more talk anyone out of bankruptcy than I would talk them into years of on the edge financial living, encouraging themselves to be sued and remaining in the pain and stress of money troubles. Honestly, which is more cruel?
Seriously, people need to stop drinking the Dave Ramsey Kool-Aid at times and investigate all debt relief solutions for themselves so they can make an educated and informed decision.
If someone is looking forward to remaining in collections, being sued, ruining their credit for much longer and struggling for years to repay their debts, that’s their own choice. But if repaying the debts is the end game that Ramsey wants people to achieve, why not recommend people to get the protection bankruptcy has to offer and still repay your debts in full. There is not one thing that prevents that. In fact with that approach the interest rates go to 0% and the total amount paid is much less than with the Ramsey punishment approach.
Let’s look at the individual approaches:
The Dave Ramsey Punishment Method:
So please, do yourself and me a favor, if you have ruled bankruptcy out because Dave Ramsey has scared you about it, you owe it to yourself to click here to find a local bankruptcy attorney you like. Go talk to the attorney and get yourself educated about bankruptcy and what it is really like. Once you do that then you can make good decisions based on knowledge, not fear.