25 years of marriage, lots of really bad financial decisions. We are seriously struggling, barely staying afloat. At this current time all our bills are paid up to date. Son is in college, daughter will be a junior in high school. We owe more on our house and 1 vehicle than they are worth.
The attorney we met with suggested filing Chapter 7, and he said we “should’ able to stay in our home for at least a year.(right at the beginning of our daughters senior year). Not sure if this is the route we should take or if there are any alternatives?
Especially since we have made so many bad decisions in the past, wondering if this would be one also in the future, plus I am no so excited about a forclosure notice being posted in our small town paper.
It is clear that things are going to need to change and you need to turn your finances around. Struggling and barely getting by is no way to live. Is bankruptcy the right answer? I don’t know enough about your situation to tell you.
What I can tell you is that bankruptcy will give you a fresh start and a chance to get out from under the daily burdens that you are feeling right now. I understand having to let the house go can be tough on the kids, but so is barely getting by and your daughter not having the ability to participate in many of the things her friends are doing. Perhaps you can rent a home in the same area so your daughter can finish school at the same place.
If you would like to explore some additional options please contact me through my website and I can take a much more in depth look at your overall financial situation and tell you specifically what you can do. Perhaps there is an alternative that will work better for you than a bankruptcy, or I might confirm that a chapter 7 is the best, can help you with some strategic timing issues and at minimum give you the conviction of knowing that the decision you are making is the best path forward and out of your current struggles.
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