I owe $4600 in collection account that I am currently paying payments on. I owe $1600 to a friend. And I have 4 credit cards that are now sold to various people that I haven’t paid on in 2 years.
I currently have finally gotten to the point of having $550 to use to pay off these debts. My thought process is to pay off the $4200 first and the personal loan before I attack the credit cards. I am 50 years old.
I have always worked and paid my bills however this time life got in the way. Lost jobs, used credit cards to pay off bills, the same old story. I rent an apt and pay cell, cable (recently just got after 5 years of no tv), elec, gas, fuel for vehicle (paid off), car insurance totally $1400. This leaves me about $700 for the month. I decided to bite the bullet and for 10 months pay the current debt off. My credit cards are $1300, $7500, $10000, and $8200.
I don’t hang out with friends that much anymore because I cant afford it. I don’t buy coffee, and a movie is maybe once every 3 months if that. I usually hike and walk-free. I do cook at home.
I have a dog that probably thinks I am nuts since she is the one I talk to! I am in pretty good spirits in all seriousness, but tired of not getting anywhere. I used to work two jobs since I was 14 until last year. Maybe I need to do that again, but the walking and hiking keeps me more balanced emotionally at this time.
Am I heading in the right direction? Which card do I pay of first once I get to the credit cards. Is there a better way of doing this? Will I ever be able to own a home again since I am 50? If not, I would be okay with renting and getting my credit back in good standing. I don’t think I need to contemplate bankruptcy but maybe I am wrong.
No, I don’t sleep at night.
The Alaskan Lone She Wolf!”
Dear Alaskan Lone She Wolf!,
There are all kinds of ways of looking at life and the path out of debt. For some they feel the right path to follow includes years of just getting by and digging out of that hole. I understand that point of view.
My mother is currently dying from cancer. She probably has a few months left. Those realities give you a different perspective on the issues.
You’ve spent a large amount of time just limping by and never getting ahead. Is your life or your friendships better for it?
Answer me this, do you have a greater responsibility to try to fix the past mistakes or do better in the future?
Are you safer by using all your money for the next six years trying to repay your debt or going for a legal second chance and then using the money to save and build an emergency fund for financial misfortunes to come?
Every person has to make those decision for themselves.
Let’s start with the basics.
I’d suggest you first read How to Get Out of Debt. The Honest and Unvarnished Truth and The Truth About The Success Rates, Failure Rates and Completion Rates of Credit Counseling, Debt Settlement, and Bankruptcy. They will give you a great overview of what we need to deal with to get you moving in the right direction.
After that, come back here and comment about what seems to make the most sense and let’s discuss that.
If you decide that bankruptcy is a logical path then you can find a local bankruptcy attorney here. Additionally, a bankruptcy would not prohibit you from repaying any creditor or friend that you wanted to.
Please post your responses and follow-up messages to me on this in the comments section below.