Quick Answer: A husband who leaves for days without contact and abandons his wife and 2-year-old child requires serious consideration before reconciliation efforts. While Alice reports success with unconventional methods, the underlying issues of infidelity and abandonment need professional counseling and STD testing before rebuilding trust.
Question:
Dear Steve,
My name is Alice, and I am from the United States. My husband and I have been married for about 4 yrs now. We were happily married with a 2yrs old son. Three months ago, I started to notice some strange behavior from him, and a few weeks later, I found out that my husband was seeing someone.
He started coming home late from work. He hardly cares about the kids or me anymore.
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Sometimes he goes out and doesn’t even come back home for about 2-3 days.
I did all I could to rectify this problem but all to no avail.
I became very worried and needed help. As I was browsing the internet one day, I came across a website suggesting that [XXX] can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships, and so on.
So, I felt I should try him out. So, I contacted him and told him my problems, and he told me what to do, and I did it, and he did a spell for me. Forty-eight hours later, my husband came to me and apologized for his wrongs and promised never to do it again.
Alice
Answer:
Dear Alice,
I’m not sure what to say here. My first reaction is that any man that sneaks out and leaves you and your two-year-old son is not worth casting a spell on to bring back.
At the very least, your husband needs an STD test to see if he brought anything else home.
I’m glad you are happy with the outcome. You are much more understanding than most people would be. But between the spell caster and the cheating spouse, there is a lot to digest here.
I’d love for people to comment on your question and offer up their advice as well. Maybe I’m being too harsh but I’d kick this loser to the curb. I can only imagine the money he spent on the other woman that should have been used to care for you and your son.
You might forgive and forget but I’m not going to.
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I will always remember what my mom told me growing up.. don’t show up where you’re not wanted and don’t beg someone to be with you if they don’t want to be with you. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t love you like you deserve to be loved?? I’ve been with my fiancé for 6 years now we have two babies and we’re genuinely happy and in love. I thank god we’re both on the same page but as any woman I wonder what I would do if I were to find out he’s cheated.. and i have to say that I would leave. Not only do I deserve to be treated better but I want to spend my life with someone I’m so in love with ( and thats so in love with me) that any obstacle thrown at us is insignificant. I also just couldn’t forgive i hold grudges and I would never forget but that’s just me. Wishing you the best ❤️
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