2005 I earned a few hundred thousand I could invest. Being young I took a risk, I provided a bridge loan of $135,000, Prepared by and attorney. In the same year I loaned the money the loan defaulted. So I wrote off the loan through the advise of an attorney and accountant. I was audited by the IRS which followed by the CA franchise tax board. IRS stated it was an investment and not eligible to be written off. We disagreed and scheduled a tax court date to dispute. My attorney went to arbitration and called me with two options. Agree to pay $65k or go to court and fight it. My attorney’s had a word of caution, the judge basically told him he did not want to see us in court. My attorney gave me the pros and cons of each decision and out of fear of loosing I took the reduced penalty. Since then through attorney costs, the loss of my business I started in I accumulated debt.
Here is the lay out of my situation:
Owe Fed and State a combined total of $85k
-State on a 3 year payment plan
-Fed on a $250 mo plan (this will take over 2 decades to pay off)
Roughly $50k in Credit card debt
-Debt comprised of Attorney fees, property tax payments on my home and living expenses (Fuel, Groceries Utilities). If my credit card statements were audited since 2005 all charges were made out of living necessity.
Current Credit is great, I make all my payments on time.
I have a mortgage, interest only @ 3% maturing in Nov 2013 adjustment will be Libor + 2%
I make enough money to pay my minimums and exist.
I am in my 40s Married with kids
I do not have a college fund for the kids
I am unable to save anything for retirement
Occupation – I am an independent sales rep (1099)
I have the ability to pay, but at the sacrifice of my family’s future
I feel very vulnerable about our financial future
The only way to get out of this debt especially the tax debt is bankruptcy
I paid $3,500 to file an offer and compromise but the IRS denied it because their calculations show I have the ability to pay
I visited a bankruptcy attorney and he says I pass the 4 tests to discharge the tax debt
I left the bankruptcy attorney with an uneasy feeling. All my life I have always honored my commitments. Recently I spoke to a friend who I respect, just filed bankruptcy and got me thinking again. I am now once again leaning to bankruptcy. My debt or my family. My debt was a result of a bad business decision not irresponsible spending.
Should I file bankruptcy at the risk of my family?”
I recently wrote Do Not Avoid Bankruptcy which seems to apply in your case. From all accounts a bankruptcy would allow you to close the chapter on these past issues and move forward in a safer way.
It would have offered you a way to deal with the tax situation without paying for the worthless offer in compromise help. I’ve come to learn those are based on pure formula which you can actually gather for free on the IRS website.
If you were truly worried about strictly honoring your commitments then you never would have made the offer in compromise. I Actually suspect what is holding you up is simply bad assumptions and incorrect beliefs about what bankruptcy actually means.
I can’t see how filing bankruptcy creates any risk for your family. In fact it appears far riskier to not file bankruptcy which would then rob them of their financial future.
Please read through the articles and guides below to get back on track.
Bankruptcy Articles and Posts You Must Read
To get ready to read the information below with the right frame of mind, please first read How Do I Get Out of Debt Quickly? Change Your Mindset.
- Those That File Bankruptcy Do Better Than Those That Don’t
- How to Know if You Should File Bankruptcy
- So You Are Going to File Bankruptcy. That’s Great News. Congratulations.
- Easily Rebuild Your Credit After Bankruptcy
- The Truth About Bankruptcy Success Rates
- How to Get Out of Debt Calculator
- How Avoiding Bankruptcy Can Backfire
- How Long After Bankruptcy Can I Buy a House?
- Is Bankruptcy Sinful and Bad or Right and Moral? An Examination
- What Does the Bible Say About Bankruptcy? Is Bankruptcy Scriptural?
- How to Get Out of Debt. The Honest and Unvarnished Truth
- The Emotional Seven Stages of Debt
- Getting a Job After Bankruptcy
- Chapter 7 Bankruptcy – What is the Truth?
- Low Cost / Pro Bono Bankruptcy Resource Locator
- Bankruptcy Should Be the Last Resort Many Say. But That’s Just Not True
- The Ethical Considerations of Bankruptcy
- Is Bankruptcy Right For Me?
- 14 Reasons You Should Not Avoid Bankruptcy
- How to Really Discharge Your Student Loans in Bankruptcy. Many Can. But Never Try.
- Life After Bankruptcy: How to Quickly Have Great Credit and Dumb Mistakes to Avoid
- How to Find a Great Bankruptcy Attorney
- You Have Not Failed if You File Bankruptcy
- The Saddest Avoidable Mistake People Make When Getting Out of Debt
Life After Bankruptcy
- How Long After Bankruptcy Can I Buy a House?
- How to Rent a Lovely Home or Apartment After Bankruptcy
- Life After Bankruptcy – The Truth
- How to Easily Rebuild Your Credit and Have Good Credit Again After Bankruptcy
Filing Bankruptcy Yourself
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